Kiaan Blogs

  What is Your Real Goal in Life? Is it to earn more money? Get a high-paying job? Make your family proud? Or just be safe and secure? These would be typical responses — because they are. But pause for a second. Ask yourself honestly: Do I really want to do that? Or is it just what I think I need to do? 🎯 Is Your Goal a True Want — or Just a Need? Here’s something not many people stop to think about: If you want to become a lawyer just so you can support your family — that isn't your real mission. That’s a responsibility. A need. But it’s not your final goal. Same with money. You don’t want it just to stack it. You want what it gives you: freedom, peace, security, comfort, happiness. Don’t mix up the road and the destination. Just because you have to do something doesn’t mean you want to spend your whole life doing it. 💭 Do You Want This Life — or Just Feel Like You Have To? Be completely honest for a moment: Do I truly want the life I’m chasing? Or do I...

So, before you skip this blog because of the title, let me explain myself by an example: assume you had a fever today and go to a doctor, but he says you had fever today because 5 days before you got wet in rain. Will you believe it? Just because something happened 5 days before, you are suffering today? Similarly, for something that has happened with you years before, will it affect you today? No past memory — trauma — gives us a shock. It’s our mind that makes it according to our purpose. It’s by the meaning we give them that makes them sad or happy. It’s our thinking that makes an event traumatizing or happy. At last, just think — if something has happened in the past and there is no way to change it, and there’s no way to control the future, why are we stressing our present and not living happily in this moment? We’re in this journey together. #teen thoughts #stress #mental health #overthinking #self help #mindset #anxiety #trauma #philosophy #growth #teenlife   #mentalhealth ...